Enlisted military personnel are often not alone in their sacrifice. Their loved ones face challenges too, from frequent moves that disrupt routines to the long absences during deployments.

Children face increased risk of anxiety, depression and other mental health concerns. Lacey, N.J., Lodge No. 2518 identified this population as one that is in particular need of the support of its community, making children from military families the focus of its Beacon Grant.

The Lacey Lodge is located near Joint Base McGuire-Dix-Lakehurst, where more than 44,000 military personnel and their families live and work. The Lodge hosted some of the children who live on the base for a day of fishing and outdoor education at the Lighthouse Center for Natural Resource Education.

The day set and met multiple goals. First, the Lodge and its partners sought to teach the fundamentals of water safety. Lacey is close to an array of lakes, rivers, bays and the Atlantic Ocean, underscoring the importance of water safety in the area. The children also learned fishing skills, an activity that requires patience, builds confidence, and encourages outdoor exploration.

The Elks also wanted to ensure that these kids, who will likely undergo multiple moves during their formative years, have a skill that can accompany them “from duty station to duty station, helping them connect with new communities and outdoor opportunities wherever they go,” according to Grants Coordinator Mary Deal.

“Military families often face unique challenges, and ensuring their children are well-prepared for the environments they live in is a shared community responsibility,” says Deal. “By addressing this local need through proactive education, we continue to foster a culture of safety, awareness, and resilience in our military community.”

Beyond the practical benefits of water safety and fishing skills, the project presented an opportunity for the attendees to spend time with other children who could relate to their experiences as members of a military family. With military families coming from a variety of different backgrounds, these interactions also exposed the children to new worlds and perspectives among people who share similar circumstances.

Members of the Lodge were involved throughout the project, putting their fishing and boating skills to use. Elks offered instruction on casting, knot tying, and the proper use of life jackets and safety equipment.

“The Lodge recognizes the importance of providing these young individuals with opportunities for growth, connection and support,” says Deal. “We are honored to be part of these efforts, and we look forward to continuing and expanding our support in the future.”

CIP grant applications are open until January 21, 2026. For more information on the grants we offer, check out our Grant Toolkits. The CIP can be reached with any questions at 773/755-4730 or LodgeGrants@elks.org.